Jason Hamaan I’ve a question to ask especially men in a relationship that has lasted for long old, that what makes a man stay in love a woman, no cheating nor querrel and, most importantly, no divorce?
Halima Onotu Jason Hamaan I will share my experience i had with my husband. Here are several things that I understood from my experiences: Do not boss him around or interfere with everything about your lover. You can’t get that right just by being the woman of his life. Just trust him, love him, and be patient. Give him time to be open with you. Do not ever think that he will do everything and tell everything to you, or that he should. He is only going to be open with you if he feels comfortable around you. The past is past. Don’t talk about the same thing or problem every time you have a fight with him. Not like women, men normally forget everything after any incident. If you are upset, just tell him about it. My husband once said “I don’t even know why you are angry with me”. Just believe me, there was a clear reason for me to be angry. But finally, I understood that it was not a problem for him to feel sorry. So good communication is very important. Otherwise, they don’t know what we are thinking, and they don’t like seeing our angry mood each and every day. Give them freedom. It is better for men to spend some time with their friends. It gives them a chance to relax their minds. They are not multitasking. So having a relationship may be another task for them. Most importantly, you should be able to face any circumstances with him. You are his biggest strength. If you can’t do this, just don’t give him any hope. Being a man does not mean he should do everything. You can do your work. Don’t be a gold digger. Share bills with him. If you don’t have a job, help him save and manage his money. Don’t ever compare him with others. If you love him truly, why do you want to see another man from him? Above, I have mentioned only the things that can be done as a woman based on my experiences. The same goes for men as well.
