Halima Onotu I must emphasize that love is a complex emotion and varies from person to person. However, here are some signs that someone may be falling deeply in love with you:
They want to spend a lot of time with you: If someone is falling in love with you, they will want to spend as much time with you as possible. They may go out of their way to make plans with you or ask to hang out more often.
They show a genuine interest in you: Someone who is falling in love with you will show a genuine interest in who you are, what you like, and what makes you happy. They will listen to you attentively and ask questions to learn more about you.
They become protective of you: When someone is falling in love with you, they may become protective of you. They may feel the need to defend you, support you, and make sure you’re safe and happy.
They become vulnerable around you: When someone is falling in love with you, they may feel comfortable being vulnerable around you. They may open up to you about their fears, insecurities, and past experiences.
They do small gestures of love and affection: Someone who is falling in love with you may do small things to show their affection. This could include holding your hand, giving you comp…
Ur his priority. As important as his own family. He treats u like a part of his family.
Respects u. Never crosses limits and never insults u.
Even during fights, when u hurt him in a rage, he doesn’t speak things to hurt u even if he is capable of. He chooses to have patience rather than fighting back and making u cry.
He maintains same behaviour for years. He doesn’t get bored of u.
Shares everything. Really curious to know about u, ur day ,ur problems. Willing to solve ur issues.
Considers u as his responsibility. Doesn’t hesitate to spend for ur genuine needs. Ready to support u financially too.
Doesn’t always think about sex. He may be attracted to u. But sex is never his priority. He gets Happy looking at ur smile.
Always tries to make u laugh. Even he is stressed he will make sure u smile. He feels relief to talk to u.
Doesn’t bother about ur ex or past. Never even reminds u about them. Doesn’t feel insecure bcoz he knows he truly loves u.
Plans future together. Talks about it. Discusses the disagreements. Shows interest in imagining future and problems..
Never holds a grudge against u. Soon after fights he becomes normal and resumes the same tone. No manipulation.
He never uses the words like break up, Divorce. He firmly believes that ur his wife and thats not gonna change , whatever fights happen. He may often call u wife too!.
Its not a toxic relationship. U feel blessed in his company. U improve. U grow in true love.
Yes. Such guys exist. But rare and precious like a diamond. I have seen only one such guy in my life till now. He had a gf and she is extremely lucky. Its one of the best love stories i have ever seen. They are married now, and living their best life. They met in clg and were best friends initially. Later it culminated to love and marriage.
Its like a single soul having 2 bodies. Touchwood. They have soo many differences, tastes, yet they cherish them.