I’m 76 years old living in my retirement house in New York. When i was 19, i once had a lovely green-eyes blonde girlfriend in college whom i love so much. I committed to marrying her after college, unfortunately, she met her demise just 3 days before our graduation. It’d devastated my whole life. I wanted to commit suicide. Then, i dreamt of her asking me to move on. It took me more than 5 years from recovering her lost. Even after 50 years, now married with kids and grandkids, i still have her impression in my mind.
So with that, I’m more deserving to answering the question: How does a woman reach a man’s heart so that he can’t live without her?
Physical attraction: The first quality of a woman any abled man (exempting blind men) perceived is her physique. Physical quality that attracts a man to woman such as her curves this include her bust and waist, face, eyes, skin tone, skin smoothness, height, head and nose shape, hands, down to her legs..etc More over, this especially, women of different race tended to attract more men from other race. Example a white blonde green-eyes tall woman will attracts men of red, yellow and black race than white race.
Friendship: Woman’s ability to be friendly and maintained friendship with a man, is one of the quality that attract man’s heart. How warmth she was when you first met her will have an everlasting impression in you of her.
Mutual interests: Woman enters man’s heart when the man realized how their interests aligned. A businessman often being attracted to a business woman than any other woman. A sport man attracted to a sport woman. The same with an artist is attracted to a woman artist. All these because the same mutual interest.
Honesty!!!!!. An honest woman is reliable and trustworthy. Generally applies to all men, be attracted to an honest woman. Which man will desire a woman whom he knew she done something yet belied her action? No man. Not even satan.👿
Most important qualities Women who reach a man’s heart had that he can’t live without her. Here are the following:
- She excepts him for who he is, and does not try to change him. She does not try or expect him to change. This is applicable to religious, cultural, professional change. But not applicable to change to universally condemned bad attitudes of hers.
- She never tortures him with meaningless test, jealously, or holding out on sex especially in marital relationship.
- She never forgets he is NOT A MIND READER! Especially in a matter of little misunderstanding, - - - She opens up and tell him how she feels NOT expecting him to know her feelings out of revelation.
- She doesn’t have unrealistic expectations or criteria for being able to trust him. She trust him because she loves him.
- She never allows him to be the villain even when he believes he is. She knows he’s the villain just as well as he knew he is, but her words of encouragement motivated him wanting to be a better person.
- She always remembers that just as women forfeit their youth, and bodies for their marriage and offspring, men will never truly have that luxury. Men never had the option to forfeit their bodies. They forfeit themselves just by being born a male. They are raised and taught to work, sweat, bleed, hurt, soreness, hunting, war, protecting their family fixing and repairing, building, defending. And men dont get to sit and unfold each and every feeling and emotion, slowly look at it, hang it up on a close line and look at it some more, then take it down, slowly fold it up, put it away and pull out another feeling and do the same. Men can’t do that and really no one should make habbits like that but since women already have then please excuse us when we get irritated.
That’s my take!
